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Never Give Up
Mike never gave up on himself and eventually got out of a 20+ year addiction to porn / nicotine. Listen to his story here.

Tom Molyneux
Mar 10, 20251 min read


And then an urge hits...
Everything you've tried to quit porn hasn't worked for a reason. You inevitably get an urge and what do you do then?

Tom Molyneux
Mar 9, 20251 min read


Real Freedom, Complete Alignment
In porn addiction it can feel like there are two parts of us. To escape, we must deal with urges correctly and change our brain for good.

Tom Molyneux
Mar 8, 20251 min read


A fresh perspective
We can not solve a problem with the same mind that created it. Shift your perspective and you can shift your reality.

Tom Molyneux
Mar 7, 20252 min read


How do you feel about stopping?
True mental freedom should be your goal, not a streak. And this freedom comes from dealing with compulsive desires correctly.

Tom Molyneux
Mar 6, 20251 min read


The real reason you watch porn
Most people never overcome porn addiction because they treat the "reason" they want to watch porn instead of treating the compulsive desire.

Tom Molyneux
Mar 5, 20253 min read


Quitting Porn Correctly
There is a right way and a wrong way to quitting porn. One results in permanent freedom, the other indefinite management of addiction

Tom Molyneux
Mar 4, 20252 min read


Reducing Relapses - A Dead End
To overcome porn addiction for good, I had to start by facing my own reality. I had to realise the truth behind relapsing.

Tom Molyneux
Mar 1, 20252 min read


The NoFap Relapse Cycle
Last weekend I ran a marathon in Seville with some friends and my girlfriend. It was difficult at times, but I chose to experience the...

Tom Molyneux
Feb 28, 20252 min read


Look backwards, move forwards
Most people take a reactive, passive approach towards overcoming porn. I share why an active approach to porn addiction is required.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 19, 20251 min read


How to start changing your addicted neural pathways correctly
Changing addicted neural pathways requires an approach which probably goes against everything you've been told so far.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 18, 20254 min read


2 Approaches To Quitting Porn
99% of people try to quit porn with a passive approach.
I did this for 9 years.
And then I learned something totally different.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 17, 20251 min read


The Reality of Rewiring
To actually overcome porn addiction correctly, rewiring of the neural pathways is required. Otherwise you'll eventually go back to it.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 14, 20252 min read


NoFap Circles V LBC Line
Most people go round in circles and never get free from porn addiction. A direct straight line is required instead.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 13, 20251 min read


I thought I was inherently flawed...
I started to believe there was something wrong with me. Down to the core. My innate sexual desires out of place somehow.
That was not true.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 12, 20251 min read


Is it normal to watch porn?
Watching porn has become normal.
I got bullied by the addicted part of my mind. I had to counter thoughts like "it's normal" to get out.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 11, 20251 min read


Do you fear they can tell?
Do you fear that people can tell that you have watched porn? It is possible to go beyond porn addiction for good by facing the reality of it

Tom Molyneux
Feb 10, 20251 min read


Do you have to stop watching porn?
Do you feel like you have to stop watching porn? Are you stuck in a cycle of trying to stop and then relapsing? Let's change how you think.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 8, 20252 min read


Are you addicted to porn?
Are you addicted to porn? I think this question can be detrimental and so I suggest an alternative perspective.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 7, 20252 min read


Urges after drinking alcohol?
I used to relapse after drinking alcohol. Now I know how to deal with any urge.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 6, 20253 min read
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